How many of you are saying that it is their fault (pointing the finger at others).  The bible says to let a man examine himself.  Are you perfect?  The answer is probably no.  When was the last time you looked in the mirror?  Maybe it could be the person looking at you is the biggest problem.  Maybe it is time to point your finger at that person (yourself) and try getting it right.  When you do get it right, then maybe you will have the right to complain, just a thought.